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You have biblically and honestly tackled the question of the roles of women in your articles.

But I have a question concerning the meaning of women’s lives. What does the Bible mean when it says that God intended to create a woman to help man? Does it then reduce single women to purposeless beings who have nothing to do on earth? I mean not the widowed, but the never marrieds.

No, the Bible does not reduce single women at all. I believe God’s design of women means that when we operate in our strengths and giftings, we are helping other people in a variety of ways. People have many needs on many levels: physically, emotionally, spiritually, aesthetically. When women bring our God-given beauty and sensitivity, nurture and compassion, intellect and leadership skills to our communities, I think we are contributing in ways that matter. Please note, none of these have to do with marital status.

I think of single friends who are teachers, helping children and adults learn and grow.
I think of single friends who are medical professionals, compassionately treating the sick and helping people get and stay healthy.
I think of single friends who are interior designers and decorators or work for them, bringing beauty and order to homes and offices.
I think of single friends who are counselors, helping people deal with pain and problems and restoring them to functionality.
I think of single friends who are serving in ministry, pointing people to Jesus and helping them grow spiritually.

It’s true that God created Eve as a helpmate for Adam, but not all women are called to marriage. Some women are called to help others in their singleness. Many of the women I know, regardless of career or calling, delight in helping others in a variety of ways. And lest anyone think being a helper is an inferior status, may I respectfully point out that God is glad to be our helper? The Psalms are rich with references to God as our helper, our rescuer, our protector. And that’s just the beginning. He created us to need help, to need Him and each other, so there is nothing “lesser than” about orienting one’s life in terms of helping others.

I hope this helps. <smile>

Sue Bohlin

© 2008 Probe Ministries

2 Comments
  1. A 7 years ago

    Women are not allowed to lead or teach, according the the Bible. You don’t know what you’re saying. They are just objects for reproduction. Don’t like it? Then don’t read the Bible.

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      Sue Bohlin 7 years ago

      Well, actually, I do know what I’m saying, both as a student of the Bible for 40 years as well as a teacher for that length of time. There is a difference between a God-ordained standard of male leadership in the church and the family and a proscription against all women leading or teaching in any capacity.

      Feel free to support your position with specific verses from the Bible and I’ll provide you with the bigger picture that puts them into perspective.

      God’s love and delight in women as His good creation goes way beyond us being “objects for reproduction.” I’m sorry you seem to see it that way. Or maybe you just heard it said and you believed it without checking it out for yourself?

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